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Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Think again =)

Mungkin bahan di bawah berguna kepada kita suatu masa
nanti. “Ubat penenang” dari Al-Quran ni tak ditakwil lagi kemujarapannya..KENAPA AKU DIUJI?
Apakah manusia itu mengira bahwa mereka dibiarkan (saja)
mengatakan:”Kami telah beriman”, sedang mereka tidak diuji lagi? Dan
sesungguhnya Kami telah menguji orang-orang sebelum mereka, maka
sesungguhnya Allah mengetahui orang-orang yang benar dan
sesungguhnya Dia mengetahui orang-orang yang dusta ~ Surah Al-Ankabut
ayat 2-3

KENAPA AKU TIDAK MENDAPATKAN APA YANG AKU IDAM-IDAMKAN?
Boleh jadi kamu membenci sesuatu, padahal ia amat baik bagimu, dan
boleh jadi (pula) kamu menyukai sesuatu padahal ia amat buruk bagimu;
Allah mengetahui, sedang kamu tidak mengetahui ~ Surah Al-Baqarah
ayat 216

KENAPA UJIAN SEBERAT INI?
Allah tidak membebani seseorang melainkan sesuai dengan
kesanggupannya ~ Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 286

RASA FRUSTASI?
Janganlah kamu bersikap lemah, dan janganlah (pula) kamu bersedih
hati, padahal kamulah orang-orang yang paling tinggi (derajatnya),
jika kamu orang-orang yang beriman ~ Surah Al-Imran ayat 139

BAGAIMANA AKU HARUS MENGHADAPINYA?
Hai orang-orang yang beriman, bersabarlah kamu dan kuatkanlah
kesabaranmu dan tetaplah bersiap siaga (di perbatasan negerimu) dan
bertaqwalah kepada Allah supaya kamu beruntung. ~ Surah Al-Imran
ayat 200

Jadikanlah sabar dan shalat sebagai penolongmu. Dan sesungguhnya yang
demikian itu sungguh berat, kecuali bagi orang-orang yang khusyu’, ~
Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 45

APA YANG AKU DAPAT DARI SEMUA INI?
Sesungguhnya Allah telah membeli dari orang-orang mu’min, diri dan
harta mereka dengan memberikan surga untuk mereka. ~ Surah At-Taubah
ayat 111

KEPADA SIAPA AKU BERHARAP?
Cukuplah Allah bagiku; tidak ada Ilah selain Dia. Hanya kepada-Nya
aku bertawakal ~ Surah At-Taubah ayat 129

AKU TAK DAPAT BERTAHAN LAGI!!!!!
..dan jangan kamu berputus asa dari rahmat Allah. Sesungguhnya tiada
berputus asa dari rahmat Allah, melainkan kaum yang kafir. ~ Surah
Yusuf ayat 87

Saturday, September 12, 2009

Read SloowwLyyy~

To those who have studied computer sciences or computer programming..lol...remember the syntax? the codes? the Boolean? here's another way of using them..

to make sure u understand what u read follow this k....(if u understand, that is..)


WHILE there is a next sentence to read, DO:
BEGIN (* while *)
Read it, SLOWLY;
IF you do not understand it, THEN
BEGIN (* if *)
re-read the previous material, SLOWLY;
re-read the incomprehensible sentence, SLOWLY;
IF you still don't understand it, THEN
ask a fellow student to explain it;
IF you still don't understand it, THEN
ask your Teaching Assistant (TA) to explain it;
IF you still don't understand it, THEN
ask me;
IF you are in an upper-level course & you still don't understand it, THEN
write a paper about it (!)
END (* if *)
END; (* while *)


This algorithm has three major advantages:

1. It forces you to actively think about each sentence you read before you go on to read the next one.

2. It slows you down, so that you don't read past the point at which you don't understand. This is especially important in mathematical and scientific subjects.

3. It can help you get help from your teacher, because you can show your teacher exactly where you got lost. It is always much better to show your teacher exactly what it is that you don't understand than it is to just say that you don't understand the material.

4. Note that it also provides you an opportunity to interact with your instructors and fellow students!

some lecturers dnt understand wot students r goin thru..

hurm..TIME is TIME

It's a strange thing, but when you are dreading something, and would give anything to slow down time, it has a disobliging habit of speeding up.....
Time is an equal opportunity employer. Each human being has exactly the same number of hours and minutes every day. Rich people can't buy more hours. Scientists can't invent new minutes. And you can't save time to spend it on another day. Even so, time is amazingly fair and forgiving. No matter how much time you've wasted in the past, you still have an entire tomorrow..but will it be the same?
Time is the most undefinable yet paradoxical of things, when the past is gone, the future has not come yet, and the present becomes the past even while we attempt to define it, and, like the flash of lightning, at once exists and expires..

(quotes taken from various authors and mine..)

Thursday, September 10, 2009

happy birthday september ppls

ok2..this month rmai b'day kwn2..including my sister..so happy birthday to u my sis..wish u all the best in life..smoga cpat2 ank dpt dgn hubby tu ye..hehehe
happy birth months to all my friends too! love u all..
hope all of u will have a special year ahead.. xoxoxo~!

i'll just be me?

If you're alone, I'll be your shadow.
If you want to cry, I'll be your shoulder.
If you want a hug, I'll be your pillow.
If you need to be happy, I'll be your smile.
But anytime you need a friend, I'll just be me.
[unknown author - ntah ayat spe2 ntah lya amik ni..adeh..suke2 ati jek..whaha]

When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares. ~Henri Nouwen

bcoz today i feel so damn lazy i keep pasting other ppl's saying..but its suit of what im gonna say anyway..a simple reminder.. ;)


ujian n dugaan bln ramadan

wahaha..take that lya! skali gedebuk ujian2 n dugaan2 dtg tetiba time bln ramadan..amik kau..amik kau..amik kau..wakakaka..ish..masyaAllah..syukur ke ats hadrat Illahi dan diminta utk diampunkn dosa2 ku slme ni..msti ade hikmah ats smua ujian n dugaan ni..

even its make us sad and depress..but that's not the kinda thing i was just looking for..but it also include for an adventure of life..making life more interesting..its time for us to learn again from the Almighty, InsyaAllah, Allah dont bring down challenges for us if He knows that we cant handle it..He knows hos strong we are and how strong we can get..waaah..im being very positive today huh? well..its better to think positive than being all so sad and depress about what happened..all we just have to do is berusaha, bdoa and bertawakal..and most important of all is to never give up k..

my dear friends, even u r down..it does not hurt to share ur problms with ur closest friends abt it..besides making u feel better, it will also give u strength to move on and face the challenges even when what ur friend was doing is just being a listener..but make sure that u share to the right kinds of friends for the wrong ones will make life harder..problems or life challenges are another way why Allah brought it to u..to SHARE with ur trustful love ones~
dont keep it to urself and handle the pain alone and then go 'owh im so sad and depress' to whoever is listening(or reading) without giving explanation of "why"..its kinda annoying espcially to a best friend..who dont know anything and only can just wait for u to open up..lets face it, lets put urself in his/her shoes..wont u be sad and hurt when ur own best friends dont tell u anything and then died of that pain..erk,ok, thats just exaggerating! but it could happen,right? would u be sad? if not..well i just dont know what kind of friend is that.. a person who haves no feelings at heart and life and love to watch final destination movies i guess..huh? scaryy~

well my friends..my prayers will always be wif u..hope for u to have the strength that u need..love u all my friends :)

Friday, September 4, 2009

Resipe for a Long Lasting Friendship ;)

Ingredients ...

Forgiveness- Use generously as you can
never add too much of this to a relationship.

Respect - this ingredient is at its' best
when it works both ways.

Inspiration - this will cause your friendship
to rise above the rest, as it tends to lift
their spirits. (We all need a little of this in
our lives. When it's given by a friend it's even
more appreciated.)

Encouragement - something we could all use a
heaping portion of and is very easily digested!!

Never-ending love - this ingredient is one of
the most important ones of all yet the most
available and easiest to add.

Determination - this is one of the final ingredients
and may be just a little harder to come by at
times but when blended together with the rest
you have a no-fail recipe.

Sprinkle generously with patience, kindness, and
understanding and a dash of humor.

Servings: Many!!!